MY FIRST PERIOD: PERIOD BASICS FOR PERIOD NEWBIES.

January 27, 2021

Welcome to adult-hood, Moxette! If you’re yet to experience your first period, it’s likely that you’re not far off, if you’re reading this...

 

First periods can be daunting, especially when it’s all new and not something you’ve had to worry about or deal with before. Once you get to know your body and your preferences for managing your period, things should get a heap easier. Don’t sweat, Moxette – we’ve got all the things for (first) period peace-of-mind. Here are some of the basics you need to know…

 

WHO GETS PERIODS?

Generally speaking, people who are born with female reproductive organs will experience a period, though some people may experience rare medical issues which will cause them to NOT experience a period, even if they are born with female sex organs. It's important to note though that there are some people who do have periods that do not necessarily identify as women (for example, some people who identify as male or non-binary might experience menstrual bleeds, too!).

 

WHEN WILL I GET MY FIRST PERIOD?

Firstly, we need to say that everyone is going to be different - so don't sweat too much if your friends have their period and you don't yet, or if you were the first out of your group to get it. The average age for the onset of menstruation is around 10 or 11 years old, but anywhere between the ages of 8 and 16 is also considered normal.

 

WHAT ARE THE SIGNS OF A FIRST PERIOD?

There are a few tell-tale clues that your first period is on the way soon. This process is referred to as puberty, and it's basically when your body goes from being a kid to an adult. Here are some things to look out for:

  • Your breasts start to develop. They might feel a little sore and lumpy to begin with.
  • Hair growth in your pubic area (around your vulva), under your armpits and perhaps even on your legs and arms.
  • Discharge or mucus-like fluid on your undies, which comes from your vagina. This can appear around 6 - 12 months before you get your first period.
  • Skin breakouts, or acne.

 

WHAT TO EXPECT THE FIRST TIME

A lot of us think that our first period is going to come gushing out of our vaginas in a big rush of blood. Whilst we have seen it happen before, it’s seems a lot rarer than what more commonly tends to happen, which is just a bit of spotting (which, the first time, usually looks like brown discharge). You will likely experience the symptoms of puberty prior to when you get your first period, which are a sign that your period is on the way - your breasts will start to develop, you'll start to get body hair in places you didn't before (underarms and pubic area) and you'll likely grow taller, too! 

 

WHAT DOES IT FEEL LIKE?

You may experience some cramping or discomfort in your tummy, but otherwise the bleeding part itself shouldn’t be painful. A lot of women explain it as feeling like a trickling sensation.

You may experience some other symptoms along with your period - like abdominal cramping or hormonal skin break-outs - which are often associated with what's known as pre-menstrual syndrome, or PMS. More about that a bit further on...

 

WHAT PERIOD PRODUCTS SHOULD I USE?

A thin panty liner or a pad, changed regularly (to suit your flow and comfort level) will help keep things in order for your first time. There are lots of different products out there to help absorb menstrual flow, including tampons, which are a little device about the size of your pinky finger, that's inserted inside the vagina and absorbs your flow inside the body - unlike pads, which sit inside your undies and absorb flow outside of the body. There are also reusable alternatives, like menstrual cups (also known as period cups), and absorbent period underwear, which are arguably more eco-friendly options as they are designed to be reused over and over.

It might take a bit of trial and error to figure out what works for you, your period, your body and your lifestyle. No two periods are the same, and everyone manages their period differently. Your period, your choice!

Check out our first period kit HERE with a selection of period products and other first period must-haves (like chocolate and a mini hot water bottle) to help you figure out what best suits your needs.

Moxie period products - pads, tampons, cups, hot water bottles & more

HOW OFTEN DOES IT HAPPEN?

A menstrual cycle lasts on average 28 days, but some people will experience slightly shorter or longer cycles, too. This doesn’t mean that you will bleed for 28 days straight! It means that the bleeding part will happen around every 28 days (counting the first day of your last period as day 1).

That said, some people may find that they get their first period and then nothing for a few months. This is considered to be normal and is just your body’s way of adjusting – it should find its own rhythm in a few months.

 

HOW LONG SHOULD MY PERIOD LAST?

Your period could last anywhere between 2 – 8 days. It’s generally heavier in the first few days, but should get lighter towards the end of it. You may also find that you like to use different products at different times to best suit your flow.

 

HOW MUCH BLOOD WILL I LOSE?

Probably a lot less than you think! During your period, you’ll lose about 2 – 7 tablespoons of blood – the rest is just mucus and discharge. (If you think you’re experiencing super heavy periods, we recommend visiting a trusted doctor).

 

CAN OTHER PEOPLE TELL I'M ON MY PERIOD?

Generally not, unless you tell them! There are no super obvious physical signs that you're experiencing your period that are noticeable to other people.

 

HELP! MY SKIN HAS BROKEN OUT AND I FEEL REALLY IRRITABLE. 

Ah, the joys of period-hood. This is what they call pre-menstrual syndrome, or PMS. It’s a combination of physical and emotional symptoms that women may experience during their menstrual cycle, and can include things like
irritability or mood swings, skin breakouts, headaches and bloating, to name a few. It all tends to subside once your period is over. You can learn more about PMS and how to manage it, HERE.

 

HOW WILL I KNOW WHAT'S NORMAL?

‘Normal’ means different things to different people. The info provided here is just a guide based on averages, but some women will experience things relating to their period outside of these stats. If you think something is amiss (like, if your periods are really painful, or super heavy, or if your period comes too early or too late), then we strongly recommend visiting a trusted doctor. Most often than not it’s nothing to worry about, but it’s always worth getting checked out for peace of mind! For more info, check out our post on 'What's normal when it comes to your period?' 

 

WHAT IS TOXIC SHOCK SYNDROME?

Toxic Shock Syndrome, or TSS, is a serious but a very rare disease that is caused by bacteria. It is more common in people who are menstruating and use tampons, though there is no scientific evidence to suggest that tampons themselves cause TSS. If you're a tampon user, regularly changing your tampon, and ensuring that you only use the lowest absorbency possible for your flow can help prevent TSS. TSS is generally nothing to worry about for most women, but it is important to always read, follow and keep the instructions that are provided in tampon packs. You can learn more about TSS HERE and HERE.

 

HOW DO I PREPARE FOR MY FIRST PERIOD?

Educated and prepared Moxettes are empowered and well-equipped Moxettes! Take some time to learn more about periods: The Moxie Periodic Table is a super fun, free and easy resource that gives you the low-down on all things periods and intimate care, as well as our Moxie blog, which is packed with answers to the most frequently period-related questions.

Don't be afraid to ask questions and have open conversations with trusted friends, family or medical professionals, and of course, get prepped with some period products so that you won't be caught unawares on your first time. Our Moxie 'Welcome to Periods!' boxes have got a heap of things you need to help guide you through.

The Moxie Periodic Table - period and intimate health support


SO I GOT MY FIRST PERIOD - WHAT'S NEXT?

You can expect to get your period for quite some time, Moxette. People who experience a period will generally do so their period until they reach menopause, which happens at around 50 - 55 years old (but don’t worry about that just yet, we’ll talk about that some other time!).

In the meantime, the best thing you can do is be kind to yourself and your body and remember that self-care is important, especially when you might be experiencing some of these classic period dramas! Have a warm bath, snack on some of your favourite chocolate and just do what makes you feel good. 

If you've got any other questions about periods or period products, you can get in touch at info@moxie.com.au or DM us on Insta or Facebook @MoxieHQ. If you have any medical-related questions or any concerns about your periods or your body, please do speak to a trusted adult or a medical professional you feel comfortable with.

 



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